This blog and the new My Fat Spouse website at http://myfatspouse.org will hopefully serve as meeting places for all the old regulars and anybody else who found refuge and resources at the old myfatspouse.com. I would also encourage anybody who is struggling with ongoing issues in the weight, sex and marriage department of their lives to get involved, post your thoughts, hopes, fears, frustrations and day dreams. The Nabble My Fat Spouse Forum is wide open. You don't need to register to post. Dealing with a loved one's obesity can become complicated and there isn't much out there in the way of support . We all realize this can be a difficult subject. It may help to take a load off your mind and type it into the forum. My Fat Spouse was a great place for me to go with my weight, sex and marriage issues and with some exceptions I took away more than one valuable piece of advice. The site has been down more than a month now and with the exception of a few faint whimpers of sadness and puzzlement on Chris's "Unfat Blog", there really hasn't been much in the way of lamentations for "My Fat Spouse". I think the site provided a much needed place for husbands and wives to vent, compare notes, trade stories, commiserate, etc. I don't think MFS reached it's full potential as a resource or as a forum, but it was well on the way. It will be a daunting task to put something even slightly comparable together and I wish somebody with far more web talent than me was taking this on. That being said, everything has to start somewhere and here we are! I'm looking for posters, collaborators and partners in crime. I'm open to any and all ideas. If Chris decides to climb back on line I will happily cease and desist any MFS activity he isn't cool with. In the mean time I hope to keep this thing going. The site was there for me and I want it to be there for others. Thanks for stopping by, spread the word and keep in touch!