tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3216718012287727481.post1515515741241047438..comments2023-11-19T04:38:05.335-08:00Comments on My Fat Spouse: Am I wrong to want my partner to take care of her appearance?My Fat Spousehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00432262305393824708noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3216718012287727481.post-74994380458245871822010-09-17T22:24:33.625-07:002010-09-17T22:24:33.625-07:00You are NOT being shallow. End of story.You are NOT being shallow. End of story.CMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15350281056944526993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3216718012287727481.post-79196132378960104662010-09-16T13:23:10.967-07:002010-09-16T13:23:10.967-07:00if you are no longer attracted to your partner for...if you are no longer attracted to your partner for just 35 lbs maybe you never really loved her because realistically 35 lbs is not that much so yes you are being shallow. I have a feeling if the tables were turned she would not treat you the way you are treating her. And she can always move on and find someone who will love her regardless of her weight. As a reminder women gain more weight if they are unhappy in their relationship. So by being mean and dismissive to her you're contributing to her weight gain and most likely her drinking. If someone starts feeling they're partner is no longer attracted to them they usually get depressed which for many causes.... weight gain! As for the clothing thing go shopping with her and help her pick out clothes. it may suck but she'll get the picture that you want her to wear clothes that fit her. The main thing you need to do is be honest with her because honestly if i was her I would think you were cheating on me if you never wanted to have sex and never actually talked about the underlying issues. If you guys talk and she decides she wants to lose weight for her own well being maybe a wii with wiifit and the game Just Dance might help start the process. They're fun, you can do it in the comfort of your own home, and you can do it together! Good Luck.openyourmindhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17990943607890256863noreply@blogger.com